Stacy Speaks

Why did I leave my teaching job and Hawaii during the pandemic?

I left my elementary school teaching job and the islands of Hawaii to experience a fun and adventurous relationship with a younger man in East Africa. I wanted more in life. I wanted to find true love and make an effort to have a “boyfriend”.

What were some of my learnings from having boy friends in Tanzania?

I learned to love myself the most, to take care of myself first, and to make myself happy. I learned about detaching from expectations and unnecessary stress. I learned to stop fantasizing about my life and to start taking action. I learned to be calm and patient. I learned that having common goals with someone you want as a partner is important. I learned I have a lot of fun doing what I want to do. I learned I was ignorant. I learned that people will do what they think is necessary to take care of themselves. I learned that keeping people in my life whose actions give me unnecessary stress is my stress to deal with. I learned I am kind and caring. I learned that loving someone is a choice. I learned I am happy being single doing what I like to do…for now.

What is my purpose of this personal website?

My purpose of this personal website is to provide positivity, hope, and encouragement for personal change and enhancement.

What do I desire to achieve through this website?

Through this website, I desire to 1) ignite passion within you for your life, 2) educate and entertain you simultaneously, and 3) make a difference in your life.

What makes me worth listening to?

I have some educational knowledge, but more, my life experiences make me worthy of your time and attention. I have been purposefully growing myself and teaching people of all ages for over 35 years. Some of my life’s experiences include raising children, being in a marriage for 20 years, earning degrees, volunteering in organizations, being an educator and coach, leaving a marriage, intentionally changing my life at 40, recovering from a 10 year eating disorder, building resilience, drastically changing my life at 50, discovering inner peace, becoming emotionally intelligent, and creating “My 10 Rules” for experiencing life.

What are some things I want to learn more about?

1) I want to learn more about breathing with yoga poses. I have been practicing yoga poses for the last year, and I know very little about how to breathe in a pose or move with the breath. 2) I want to learn about what is happening inside my body when I sit on the hard small ball. I know there are changes happening because I feel them. But, I don’t know what’s happening. 3) I want to learn more about “healing” with touch. I want to know more about the human body and its workings. 4) I want to learn more about sailing and ocean currents and winds. 5) I want to learn more about gardening and growing food because I know very little. 6) I want to learn more about food nutrients and cooking. 7) I want to learn more about playing. billiards. 8) I want to learn dance moves.

What do I believe?

I believe in learning and changing through purposeful actions. I believe in doing the work towards making dreams come true. I believe in accomplishing goals. I believe in finding peace within the self. I believe in finding joy in living life. I believe in myself.

How do I help others?

I help others by giving my time and services how I can. Currently, I help people with cleaning, adult caretaking, animal care, children care, and being a honest and trustworthy person.

How can you connect with me more?

First, on my Homepage or Blogpage, you can subscribe to receive my “Welcome Email” and “Monthly Newsletters”. Second, through my Contact webpage, you can send me your thoughts and ideas for this website. Third, you can message me through the comments on my TikTok videos. My TikTok username is @JungleBabe540. Last, you can direct message me on my adult websites on OnlyFans. You must be at least 18 years of age to message me through OnlyFans.

What was my initial reason to share my intimate life on OnlyFans? How did OnlyFans benefit me?

I started my first online business, OnlyFans, to share my intimate life because I needed to learn if there were people who liked me for me. I was still dealing with emotions and thoughts of not creating a forever life with someone, and I was living in a remote tropical area in Hawaii. The OnlyFans platform allowed me to make connections with people while being my most authentic self. The sharing helped me laugh and have fun with myself.

Is Stacy really single?

Yes, I am really single. I am in love with living life.

What do I like to do?

I like to participate in physical activities like dancing, swimming, walking, sailing, working with the land, and playing games. I also like less strenuous activities like talking in person, cooking and eating, playing games like cards and billards, and sitting in nature. I like listening to people and having fun times together.

Am I always happy?

No, I am not always happy. But, I persevere and stay optimistic.

How do I view life now?

Now, I view life as a collection of experiences where I get to make choices and take ownership for my actions.

How do I view death?

I view death as an experience I get to participate in when this body stops working. I hope to be very aware and smiling during my physical death. I am open to what comes next.