Stacy Speaks

Where do I live?
I currently live on a Hawaiian island in a small, older, secluded town. I spend my days working, creating, and living as independently and carefree as I can.

Why did I leave my teaching job and Hawaii during the pandemic?
I left my elementary school teaching job and the islands of Hawaii to experience adventure and excitement. I was hoping to find true love and see what I was capable of beyond what I had already built.

What were some of my learnings from having boyfriends in Tanzania?
I learned to love myself the most and to make myself happy. I learned to detach from expectations, stop fantasizing, and take action instead. I learned that having common goals with a partner matters. I learned that keeping people in my life whose actions cause me unnecessary stress is my stress to deal with. I learned that loving someone is a choice, and I have a lot of fun doing what I want to do.

Am I in a relationship?
Yes. On paper I am married to a man in Tanzania. We share a vision of building a life together with a home, a boat business, travel, and great food. We are both free to pursue other kinds of relationships.

What makes me worth listening to?
My life experiences make me worthy of your time. I have been purposefully growing myself for over 35 years — spending much of that time volunteering and working primarily with youth as a coach, referee, mentor, and teacher. Some of my personal experiences include raising children, leaving a 20-year marriage, earning degrees, intentionally changing my life at 40, recovering from a 10-year eating disorder, building resilience, drastically changing my life again at 50, and creating My 10 Principles for Experiencing Life.

What do I believe?
I believe in learning and changing through purposeful action. I believe in doing the work to make dreams come true. I believe in finding peace within myself and joy in living life. I believe in myself.

How do I view life now?
Now, I view life as a collection of experiences where I get to make choices and take ownership for my actions.

How do I view death?
I view death as an experience I get to participate in when this body stops working. I hope to be very aware and smiling during my physical death. I am open to what comes next.

Am I always happy?
No, I am not always happy. But, I persevere and stay optimistic.

What are three accomplishments I am proud of?

I am proud of enjoying my role as a mother and providing unconditional love, completing the Vipassana 10-Day Silent Meditation Course more than once, and becoming a happier human.

What is the purpose of this website?
This website exists to provide positivity, hope, and encouragement for personal change. Through it, I want you to take better care of yourself, think positively about yourself, enjoy your life how you can, work towards making your dreams come true, and accomplish your goals.

What do I enjoy doing?
I enjoy physical activities such as dancing, swimming, walking, sailing, working with the land, and playing billiards. I also love cooking and eating, sitting in nature, listening to people, and having fun times together.

What do I want to learn more about?
I want to learn more about breathing with yoga poses, what happens inside the body when sitting on a small hard ball, and healing through touch. I also want to learn more about sailing and ocean currents, gardening and growing food, food nutrients and cooking, and dance moves.

What is my yoga series?
My yoga series is a 53-week “beginner friendly” practice showing the yoga poses I learned in 52 weeks. A new video posts every Thursday on my website. I intentionally started the series on January 1, 2025 — which gave me exactly 53 Thursdays, so 53 videos. A yoga teacher training I had planned was cancelled while I was in Thailand attending a different personal development course. I kept my commitment to create the series anyway.

What was my initial reason to share my intimate life on OnlyFans?
I started OnlyFans in 2022 to find out if people liked me for me. I was navigating the change of relationships, emotions, and thoughts while living in a remote area of Hawaii, and I needed connection. The platform allowed me to be my most authentic self. It helped me laugh and have fun.

How do I support others?
I support others by showing up honestly and sharing what I have learned. Through this website, I offer my time, my experiences, and my perspective to anyone looking for encouragement or a different way of seeing things.

How can you connect with me?
On my Homepage, Life page, or Experiencing Life with Stacy page, subscribe to receive my Welcome Email and Monthly Newsletters. You can also comment on my TikTok and Instagram videos. If you are 18 or older, you can direct message me on OnlyFans, LoyalFans, or DarkFans, where adult content exists.