Non-Negotiables

The idea for this video came from research I was doing for myself. I desire to have healthy relationships and I have standards for my life. Yet I recognized a pattern of attracting people who were lonely, desperate, and sad — because I had felt these things myself. Knowing what I will and will not tolerate became important, especially as I meet new people.

With the information I gathered, I created a Non-Negotiables Worksheet, giving credit to writer Charlotte Hilton Andersen. Taking time to answer the questions gave me insight into what is important to me and why.

After making the video, I realized that knowing our individual non-negotiables before becoming attached to relationships can be very useful.

I encourage you to download the worksheet, use it, and share it with others.

Aloha 🌺